Well reported nowadays is Tim, a 20 year old boy, who committed suicide. I find people that really do it very courageous. And the pain that is contained in this story affects me: The harassment and being excluded.
Every human being deserves to be included. Every human being deserves this deeply. We need it, we are a tribe animal. As a mammal we are part of the pack that lives together. I understand why Tim ends his life if he is not part of the group. It is like death to us to not be included
With grief in my heart I think of how we can invite each other into the group. How we can raise our children to involve others. It starts close to home how we can can include everything that we are ourselves, the right and the wrong.
In Family Constellations we often see that we have excluded family members.