Family constellations consist of bringing a group of people together in order to imitate the family situation where each family member is represented by a new person who is present in the room. This makes it possible to review the situation as it was and to...
A journey of the soul within a Family Constellations training. What is meant with this? 7 years ago I started my first training group in Family and Organization Constellations. I had invited a few good colleagues as guest lecturers but at the end of the training the...
You might think, the shadow? Is there a shadow? I will try to explain. Many of my friends including myself are involved in giving new perspectives, inspiration and hope. However the shadow is that when you are unable to fulfill these positive intentions, you fall into...
Over the last weeks I’ve had the privilege to supervise an organization constellation about the financial crisis for financial service providers. Here we could observe how everything got totally deadlocked because of ever increasing supervision and the accompanying...
Internally we already know the answer to many questions. Today a piece about guilt and innocence. Many of us are attached to a sense of innocence inside of us. We want to protect that and find it hard to deal with guilt. If we feel guilty we get heavy and depressed....
Since the days of ancient Greece do we live in a world where dualism is dominating. This dualism makes a separation between the spiritual and the material. This separation between material matters and matters of the soul is the core of our problem with enthusiasm in...
I hope that we are moving towards a time where we are no longer separated by different values. But that we may recognize the same values in diversity. I recognize a lot in a good friend of mine with a Jewish father. I recognize the way in which we do not really want...
In mediation between two parties constellations can be of use. It provides insight into which affairs of the other party trigger something deeper in your own system, which causes you not to hear each other. It does not necessarily mean that you will get closer...