Coronavirus Systemic Secrets
How to grow your compassion, love, and Immune Power! I want to share the secrets of the coronavirus with you, the secrets that where revealed during our constellation ceremony. But before I do that, let me briefly introduce myself and our systemic work. I am a...
Think and grow rich systemically
I am reading the great ebook Think and Grow Rich of Napoleon Hill. It is written in 1937 but so valid! This video gives great hidden messages from the book and live findings: Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve. You have the power to take...
The Creation of family constellations.
Bert Hellinger created family constellations in the nineteen eighties from an interplay between Freudian psychoanalysis, bodywork, familytherapy, NLP, gestalt therapy and religious rituals from primitive tribes and christians. From there originated the phenomenon of...
What are family constellations and how do they work ?
Family constellations consist of bringing a group of people together in order to imitate the family situation where each family member is represented by a new person who is present in the room. This makes it possible to review the situation as it was and to...
Trauma Constellations, trauma and Family Constellations
Trauma Constellations, Family Constallations and working on trauma combined. Because you cannot process an intense situation a trauma is created. That can be a great loss, a conscious or unconscious emotional injury or a threat to your life. Some deep traumas are...
Look into the mirror with Family Constellations
Break through your limitations and look into the mirror with Family Constellations. If you dare to open up to yourself and your power than read on. There is a moment that you are confronted with yourself and your powerlessness. This may be in the area of: making...
The history of family constellations
History of family constellations by Bert Hellinger Bert Hellinger is the founder of Family Constellations. After being priest for years and working as a headmaster at a school in South Africa he pointed his heart on the human consciousness and development. He...
The New Family Constellating
The working practice with its books and stories from the early days of Family Constellations are a bit dogmatic. This is why we now practice “the New Family Constellating”. In “the New Family Constellating” we have moved away from the fixed mentality in the world of...
GOING ON AN INNER JOURNEY
Spirit of the time “Know thyself” said Socrates. We live in a time where we are innovating, communicating and globalizing at topspeed. This enormous amount of impulses, workload and choices makes it more than ever before important to realize what is important to us,...
Being Excluded
Well reported nowadays is Tim, a 20 year old boy, who committed suicide. I find people that really do it very courageous. And the pain that is contained in this story affects me: The harassment and being excluded. Every human being deserves to be included. Every human...
Family Constellations Training as a journey of the soul.
A journey of the soul within a Family Constellations training. What is meant with this? 7 years ago I started my first training group in Family and Organization Constellations. I had invited a few good colleagues as guest lecturers but at the end of the training the...
Body awareness and breathing
What do you feel in your body right now? The raw, the real, the acxtual? So what is it that you really feel inside your body right now without sticking images onto it? Pressure on your chest for instance, or tension in your back? It is interesting to be aware of where...
Saying Goodbye
Do you dare to let go, say goodbye and truly sustain a new start? If we don’t really say goodbye and let go, how can we really start something new? If we don’t really say goodbye have we really started something new? And have we had a relationship at all? Most of...
Family Constellations and Willem Holleeder
I was just looking at Willem Holleeder. What if we look through the lens of insights from Family Constellations at this man? What will we see? We see a man who miraculously kidnapped the director from the company where his father was working all his life. Freddy...
The raw….The genuine….The light
In our lives of comfort we sometimes miss something that we do find in our dreams, holidays, books, love and movies! And some of us are close to it. I do understand my brothers who go to Afghanistan for adventure. My dear acquaintance Paul de Blot once told me how...
More happiness in relationships
I have seen a lot of unhappiness in relationships lately. What is it that makes so many of us suffer in their relationships or in their quest for a good partner? What we see in Family Constellations is that when we are in a relationship we are in a relationship with...
A story about breaking through to more natural self-love
Imagine you are walking in the woods, sad and confused because you relationship is not what you want it to be. It smells of rotting leaves like now in the fall. The colors are soft yellow and pale brown. Suddenly a mild breeze blows away your feelings of grief and...
loving your soul with your heart
Many of us keep pain hidden in their hearts in the shape of anger and grief. Our soul is always happy and connected with the power of our ancestors. How can we allow this power of our soul into our hearts? The key lies in consciously chosing with our heart to love our...
The shadow of positive intentions
The shadow of positive intentions You might think, the shadow? Is there a shadow? I will try to explain. Many of my friends including myself are involved in giving new perspectives, inspiration and hope. However the shadow is that when you are unable to fulfill these...
The shadow of positive intentions
You might think, the shadow? Is there a shadow? I will try to explain. Many of my friends including myself are involved in giving new perspectives, inspiration and hope. However the shadow is that when you are unable to fulfill these positive intentions, you fall into...
Constellation about the financial crisis
Over the last weeks I’ve had the privilege to supervise an organization constellation about the financial crisis for financial service providers. Here we could observe how everything got totally deadlocked because of ever increasing supervision and the accompanying...
Guilt and innocence
Internally we already know the answer to many questions. Today a piece about guilt and innocence. Many of us are attached to a sense of innocence inside of us. We want to protect that and find it hard to deal with guilt. If we feel guilty we get heavy and depressed....
Hystorical background of the separation between body and soul
Since the days of ancient Greece do we live in a world where dualism is dominating. This dualism makes a separation between the spiritual and the material. This separation between material matters and matters of the soul is the core of our problem with enthusiasm in...
Relationship fuss and Relationship Constellations
What I often see in relationships is that there is a fuss underneath which there is a hidden wisdom. Underneath our here and now fuss lies a whole world that we are not aware of. Our reactions, that are based on how we feel are coloured by our history but especially...
The Basis of Family Constellations
I felt the inspiration to write you something as if we are going to travel together. These are insights from the field of Family Constellations, perceptions about the force that leads us therein. The basis of family constellations. This is not being able to bear...
The Same Fate
I hope that we are moving towards a time where we are no longer separated by different values. But that we may recognize the same values in diversity. I recognize a lot in a good friend of mine with a Jewish father. I recognize the way in which we do not really want...
Embracing all Victims and Perpetrators
About the poem "Wrong Choice" It touches me deeply that in 2012 we still can not cry together on May 4th. We still can not be silent with all the victims and perpetrators. No, we exclude some groups and we rely on our right to our victimization. After which...
Systemic insights into the heart of an earthbound economics
For my grandchilderen I guided a very special constellation in The Hague the other day (november 2011). What made itself known was...., how important the next generations are in our policy forming. We could observe a deep change within the way we use the stock...
Money Constellations
Money is never just about money, it's about life. It's about daring to open yourself to the love of your mother.
Constellations as a path of life
You can participate in our work in order to reach something. Whatever that may be in the area of personal growth, relationships or success with your work. That is the purpose. You can clarify entanglements and release the obstructions to your flow of life. This way...
Disease Constellations
Since many years we also have been working with people with serious diseases. Many people with cancer come to us in order to learn something different about their disease. In order to support their own healing. In our work we see diseases as messages from the system,...
The Way Inwards
We are longing for harmony and are striving for fairness and are disappointed if that fails. We feel angry or sad and pure inside ... We walk the path upwards, towards the light. We walk away from something and see it as the right way. And also look for ways to...
Dream Home Constellation
Once a beautiful couple came to me who had been looking for their dream home for years. It didn’t work out, so we did a constellation with it. It turned out that they were still held back by invisible connections to their family and the associated feelings and...
